Do you find yourself trapped in thoughts, worries and feelings that you don’t want in sometimes? I find. What are you doing at such moments? This blog is mine, so i am writing what I want, but I’m not always going to advise you. Even though I know very well, like every clever dick person, I also need to take advice too. For example, I also think about why psychologists are so expensive. Mankind needs a good psychologist sometimes.
WH NEEDS A PSYHOLOGIST?
Throughout my life, thanks to my conscious family, I have had therapy many times from childhood and up to now. It is an important thing for the development of human awareness. If the psychologist had created an awareness as a child, I am not aware. But as you grow older, we need more therapy. My last time, when I said this, I talked about it as if I was in AMATEM* for substance addiction. (*Amatem is simply an organization that supports addicts.- Let me make a note here and I do not have social lynch, because now everyone is very sensitive to everything in the virtual world. I am not shame people on who gets support by Amatem, of course, everyone should get the support they need. After all, whatever to me.) was the best one.
Where was I? I am not sure if the thraphies I got as a child were working. Of course I have to ask my family, because there must have been a visible positive change that they continued to make these decisions, and they did well. I was never offended that I went to a psychologist or a psychiatrist. On the contrary, I learned to look objectively and remotely at those who look at those who go as “crazy/mad/insane“. I learned to empathize with our wonderful people who love to judge everyone who cannot adapt to society with the label “mad“. But if you ask me do i wanna if i want to empathize with them, most of the time, NO now.
The most worked therapyh of mines, was the last one. Our relationship with my therapist, who took me to the Renaissance with what she said in the first session, was relatively short, but I still remember what she said on some issues. And most importantly, they come to mind when I fall into the strange dilemmas I mentioned at the beginning. Of course, sometimes it is not enough to come to my mind, people have a hard time getting out of their strange mood, but we have to push ourselves, right? After all, we are trying to survive. (Survival is a completely different topic for me and I have to explain it in a different post.)
The things that I think of to get rid of the situations that I mentioned at the beginning are first and always the things I have achieved. I learned this from my therapist, let me sell it to you. I didn’t care what other people thought my whole life, it’s a bulletproof feature, I recommend it. I have received a lot of criticism for this feature, but one of the most important things that makes me unique is that I am free-spirited, I do not intend to give up on this because someone may criticize it or someone does not like it. But I’m deviating from the point, sorry.
I AM UNIQUE
Think about what you’ve accomplished so far when you feel deep down. Maybe you will say “Is this also a success”, probably you will have trouble listing things… But don’t do that to yourself. This strain comes from comparing yourself with others. Each of us is unique and unique to ourselves. Are we 8 billion on Earth? Do not be afraid, of course we have similar ones, but there is not one more of us. If we find our similar ones, they become a part of our lives. So do not be afraid, you are not alone, these seemingly hopeless situations are happening to others. You might think that life tests us in different ways. So if you want to survive, you have to continue. With my last sentence, I seem to want you to evaluate the probability of suicide or survival. Do not choose the suicide option of course, but know that the difficulties are not permanent, the important thing is to continue. You can think that life as a game. Aren’t you wondering the next level without making assumptions from now on?