This is a February 15 post. I would like to tell you about the love as an idea, in my head, if you fullfilled with happy enough dear, husband, love stuff… in all the sources that you can reach both visually and in writing from the Valentine’s Day and disgusted enough.
Now I will not write a post to you to remove people from your life. It’s about www.minimalistpinky.com. However, I can give you an idea of how kind of peopleyou should keep in your life.
I remember that someone said to me “women fall in love with men like this, then they get upset,” he said on a news we saw or heard on tv. I am sure there are lots of any other psychological reasons for this. However, you can review the following about the person you love or interested in. I share what you need to ask yourself as a humble advice, but be sure to ask all these questions if I am acting the way for him/her too.
ARE YOU DREAMING?
Ask yourself, are you dreaming? Can you share your dreams, goals and what you want to do with peace of mind? Is there anyone beside you who supports your dreams and helps you realize your dreams by saying their positive and negative sides? If there is, hold tight, keep going.
But is the same person about your sorrows and wounds as much as your dreams? Does he/she help fix your broken parts? Are you able to open these relatively weak sides of your life without hesitation? So, can the other person approach you with compassion? If yes, continue.
DO YOUR CHOICES SUPPORTED?
Our choices in life are not always right or just sometimes only the timing is wrong. But if things go wrong as a result of your choices, is he/she still with you, blaming you? You know the answer. Everybody is with you in the good day but if someone is with you during your bad days, keep going.
Your thoughts, beliefs, things you like to do and things you don’t like … Can you share all of these without being judged? Or you want to make a decision and change something in yourself, physical or emotional. Your choices .. also criticize them constructively? (I mean constructive criticism, showing the negative aspects of our election, if any. Supporting does not mean blindly patting your back.) Does he/she continue to stay with you and give you the necessary support as a result of your decisions? Continue.
And finally… We don’t know what life will bring us. If you can make plans for the future together in such uncertainty, continue.
